boys will glean and regurgitate buzzwords, completely alter their ‘personalities’ to shapeshift into the type of guy girls are weakest for, if that means they can get a whiff of some coochie.
boys will glean and regurgitate buzzwords, completely alter their ‘personalities’ to shapeshift into the type of guy girls are weakest for, if that means they can get a whiff of some coochie.
This old ass lady customer came up to me today at work like sis looked like she was about 100 but she was so cute and sweet she was like a lil old Italian lady and had such a cute accent she was like “WOW your hair look so beautiful on you on you skin…skin like cinnamon so pretty. Black skin look so nice with blonde. I can’t do it because I’m olive but so beautiful cinnamon skin” 😭😭😭😭 she kept calling me cinnamon skin I’m crying that’s so cute bc it wasn’t weird or fetishitic she was being so genuine I thot she was gonna be racist when she came up to me abdklsldkf
She makes housecleaning music like not even as an insult just know when i have kids and they hear Lizzo and Beyoncé’s 4 album playing it’s time to CLEAN CLEAN
Just make small talk tbh like whenever someone New starts at work I just ask their name and like ask if they go to school and what they wanna do with their life and stuff like just make casual talk don’t overthink
I think it’s possible and it could be that you just haven’t found /the one/ I honestly don’t recommend staying in something where you don’t feel it growing
Short answer: yes
Long answer: for me it all comes down to if you GENUINELY fuck with it like ice def come across mixed people who only claim their otherness bc it has been cool on the internet to not be white. Like for me even tho I don’t look Asian I def was raised culturally Asian and by an Asian mother. Like I def can relate more with the way Asian kids grew up vs black kids in the household but def outside my house and in the world I’m recieved and treated like a black woman like I have my privileges as someone who is mixed but hella disadvantages for appearing only black and being dark skinned. I also know a few people who are like 25% black who don’t feel comfortable claiming it like not bc they’re ashamed but bc they don’t know what it’s like to be black bc they have white passing privilege or nonblack poc privilege. Like they’ve never experienced racism in the same way a black person would so they don’t feel entitled to say things like the n word or weigh in on Black oppression bc they’re not treated like their black. They of course are allies to the black community but yeah. But these are just a few examples based on my personal experiences and those around me

This white man keeps checking me out I should airdrop him an invoice